Co-dependency occurs as a consequence of a weak, undeveloped structure and boundaries wherein one individual literallyembeds aspects of their energetic anatomy, specifically their identity strands, into another. They experience a generalized need to be with the person they have encroached upon in order to survive. They invade and violate the boundaries of others, as their own boundaries barely exist, and their weakened energetic structure often leaves them paralyzed, unable to take action and fend for themselves.
Individuals who are co-dependent have generally become so having experienced a difficult childhood. A burden of childhood wounds and traumas sets them on the path towards co-dependency. Having shattered their energetic structure on many occasions, these injured souls have little recourse but to become dependent upon someone they trust will care for them. Unfortunately, the one who is co-dependent drains the person upon whom they are reliant, without reprieve, continuously feeding upon the energy of the other until the target, in an attempt to protect themselves and conserve their energy, rejects the co-dependent partner in hopes of creating a separation and distance. Failing to create the desired distance, the person who is being encroached upon and energetically drained to excess will often become abusive to further distance themselves. To the person who is being exploited, the co-dependent soul feels like an energetic parasite, seemingly taking blood from a stone.
From my perspective and experience as a healer, co-dependency is first and foremost a consequence borne of a weak, damaged energetic structure wherein identity strands, lacking the ability to embed and stabilize in one's own center above, located above the head and crown chakra and or center below, located beneath the feet, find a willing participant and proceed to encroach. The co-dependent soul will enter through the chakra of the target and embed their identity strands within the other person's center above and center below, leaving the co-dependent individual with the general feeling that they must be in the presence of their target in order to survive, the person upon whom they are co-dependent must always be within their eyesight. In fact, they soon come to believe they cannot live without said individual, a feeling that isreinforced and understandable as an aspect of their own identity is actually embedded in the other upon whom they are co-dependent.
I often times make the following comparisons in an attempt to explain the dynamics involved. The co-dependent soul will often experience their compulsion to be with the target as if they were literally addicted to said person. Whereas the target they have invaded and violated will feel as if they are allergic to the person who is co-dependent upon them. Truly a difficult situation to bear for both parties involved.
Our ability to confidently self-govern, to be autonomous, independent, healthy beings, to have the ability to take action and follow through on our intentions and plans as well as successfully complete our goals and endeavors is wholly dependent upon having a sound, fully developed and integrated structure with intact boundaries and shields that serve to protect and render one resilient and fortified even should be surrounded by overbearing, domineering and dominating individuals who might otherwise usurp our powers, rights, privileges, liberties, independence, and autonomy should we fall short of advocating on our own behalf, or fail to honor and respect ourselves.
One's readiness, willingness, and ability to successfully manage life and relationships directly correlate and correspond to having sound boundaries, shields, and a fully developed integrated energetic structure. Life simply becomes easier when we are able to self-govern and have the choice and ability to act on our desires, wants, and needs. A God-given blessing we enjoy when our boundaries, shields, and structure are sufficiently resilient and able to protect us from encroaching invasive negative energies. A sound structure offers greater stability, safety, peace, and security as one is rendered protected and resilient, more prepared and readily able to contend with many of the challenges one might encounter in daily life.
Let us together pray and request God's deliverance from co-dependency so that we may attract healthy relationships and learn to honor the boundaries of others. May we successfully overcome our childhood wounds and weaknesses, repairing all the ways we have shattered until we can stand upon our own two feet and create a balanced life of well-being? May we attract healthy partners and people into our lives as we proclaim ourselves worthy of establishing equitable and reciprocal, mutually loving and fulfilling, kind and honorable relationships now and in the future. With our energetic structure intact, as we are in alignment with Source, while rooted and grounded in the now, may we always receive and enjoy the bounty of God's Loving Abundance.
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